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		<title>High-Fructose Corn Syrup: the Sequel</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 11:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here they go again: the Corn Refiners Association has aired at least two more TV commercials touting the &#8216;merits&#8217; of high-fructose corn syrup; actually, they&#8217;re repeating the same message as before. For those who haven&#8217;t had a chance to view the commercials, her are a few brief synopses of the ads: At a children&#8217;s birthday [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=42&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#b87d46;">Here they go again: the Corn Refiners Association has aired at least two more TV commercials touting the &#8216;merits&#8217; of high-fructose corn syrup; actually, they&#8217;re repeating the same message as before.  For those who haven&#8217;t had a chance to view the commercials, her are a few brief synopses of the ads:</span></p>
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<li><span style="color:#b87d46;">At a children&#8217;s birthday party, one homemaker doubts that a second homemaker cares about her children as the second homemaker pours a cup of bright red fruit drink.  Upon the first homemaker mentioning that the red beverage is sweetened with HFCS, she draws a blank when asked about its demerits; the second homemaker rattles off that it&#8217;s made from corn and okay in moderation.</span></li>
<li><span style="color:#b87d46;">Two teen boys/young men are at a breakfast table; one mentions to the other that the breakfast cereal on the table has HFCS, but (surprise! surprise! surprise!) draws a blank when asked about its demerits; the other young man echoes the sentiment of the second homemaker in the birthday party spot, that the (clearly artificial) sweetener is acceptable in moderation.</span></li>
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<p><span style="color:#b87d46;">Are you kidding me?  I&#8217;d expect young men not to be fully educated on basic nutrition (I have three stepsons, one of whom passed away in February; young men tend to eat anything that will fuel them, whereas young women are encouraged to eat more conservatively and more healthfully); the homemakers&#8217; ad, I found disturbing, especially since the second homemaker seemed to scorn the first one for being concerned about what the children at the party consume.  The first homemaker in that ad could easily have had diabetic or borderline diabetic children whose diets require that they avoid HFCS; how presumptuous of the second homemaker to assume that none of the children would be affected by the artificially-sweetened drink.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b87d46;"><em>Time</em> magazine questioned the validity of the ads, as do other sources; for more information, please visit</span><a href="http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1841910,00.html"> http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1841910,00.html</a><span style="color:#b87d46;"> The article also mentions that the ad campaign is due to go on for 18 months.  As if 28 years of HFCS being ubiquitous in common food and beverages were not scary enough, now they intend to actively promote it for another year and a half, given the known and scientifically-proven dangers of it?  Other links to the doubts and dangers of HFCS are:<br />
</span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.gourmet.com/foodpolitics/2008/08/politicsoftheplate_08_01_08">http://www.gourmet.com/foodpolitics/2008/08/politicsoftheplate_08_01_08</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.foodnavigator.com/Science-Nutrition/Fructose-again-linked-to-fat-build-up-study">http://www.foodnavigator.com/Science-Nutrition/Fructose-again-linked-to-fat-build-up-study<br />
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<p><a href="http://whattoeatbook.com/tag/hfcs/">http://whattoeatbook.com/tag/hfcs/</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.sweetsurprise.com">http://www.sweetsurprise.com</a> <span style="color:#b87d46;">(yes, I am being the devil&#8217;s advocate here and including the site that is linked to all those TV ads so that you can see their position on HFCS)</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b87d46;">It should be noted that the Food Navigator site only talks about the link between fructose and fat build-up; if natural fructose in excess can do that, what of HFCS, which is always in excess?  As for the ads, what&#8217;s so wrong with putting raw sugar or honey (two natural, minimally-processed sweeteners) on (preferably whole-grain) breakfast cereal or making lemonade or fruit punch from real fruit and real sugar or honey?  And why does the Corn Refiners&#8217; Association think people are so misinformed as to believe the obvious skewed ads, when a more intelligent conversation would present both sides clearly (let the &#8216;opponent&#8217; talk of the doubts and dangers of HFCS instead of looking clueless in front of the proponent)?</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b87d46;">V.</span></p>
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		<title>High-Fructose Corn Syrup: the Movie</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 22:20:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just saw a highly disturbing commercial on TV yesterday: a woman has unwrapped a popsicle and her male companion is trying to tell her that the frozen confection has high-fructose corn syrup in it, but he draws a blank when he tries to tell her the dangers of the (primarily artificial) sweetener. She tells [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=39&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">I just saw a highly disturbing commercial on TV yesterday: a woman has unwrapped a popsicle and her male companion is trying to tell her that the frozen confection has high-fructose corn syrup in it, but he draws a blank when he tries to tell her the dangers of the (primarily artificial) sweetener.  She tells him something to the nature of HFCS being just as safe as regular sugar and that occasional use is perfectly acceptable.  He then asks her why she only brought one of the frozen treats.  The URL for the site promoting HFCS is: <a href="http://www.hfcsfacts.com" target="_blank">http://www.hfcsfacts.com</a>.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">I went to the site and saw picture after picture of corn, as if HFCS were gathered by merely squeezing the juice from corn kernels and using the liquid as a sweetener.  Obviously, the process of creating HFCS is a hell of a lot more complex than that.  I then navigated to a page on the same site titled, &#8220;<span class="pathway">Top Published Myths About High Fructose Corn Syrup (HFCS)&#8221;: listed are facts about HFCS versus their spin on HFCS that they deem fact.  Feel free to read this at your leisure; this entry I found really disturbing:</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;"><strong>&#8220;Myth&#8221;:</strong> HFCS is not natural. (<em>quotes mine to emphasize their position versus simple logic</em>)<br />
<strong>&#8220;Reality&#8221;:</strong> HFCS, like table sugar and honey, is natural. HFCS is made from corn—a natural grain product. HFCS contains no artificial or synthetic ingredients or color additives and meets the Food and Drug Administration’s policy for use of the term “natural.” </span><span style="color:#8f271e;">(<em>quotes mine to emphasize their position versus simple logic</em>)</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">Bullshit.  <em>Nothing </em>about high-fructose corn syrup is natural <em>except its source</em>!  If the Food and Drug Administration has such lax rules as to what constitutes a natural foodstuff, it&#8217;s no wonder that children in particular are developing adult degenerative diseases and disorders such as Type 2 diabetes, heart disease, liver disease, asthma, bronchitis, and other disorders that their grandparents knew nothing of when they were the same ages.  Yes, there are other factors that are readily controllable, such as the amount of activity children get and their individual metabolisms; still, <em>food is the one substance from which we can <span style="text-decoration:underline;">never</span> totally abstain for extended periods of time without detriment or death</em>!</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">Oh, yeah, back to Ms. Popsicle: she mentioned that occasional use of HFCS is perfectly acceptable and poses no threat.  This argument is highly flawed from the get-go because it&#8217;s in nearly <em>every prepared food</em> with any degree of moisture in it: how the hell can you have occasional use of HFCS when it&#8217;s in sodas, juice beverages, ice cream, cookies, fruit-, vanilla-, and chocolate-flavored yogurt; bread, crackers, pasta sauce, &#8216;granola&#8217; bars, barbecue sauces, salad dressings, pancake syrup, breakfast cereal, coffee flavorings, cocktail flavorings, iced  tea drinks, ketchup, peanut butter, applesauce, sports drinks, flavored water, baked beans, canned pasta dinners, pet food, – and, oh yeah, popsicles?  Many homemakers turn to processed foods as a quick way to feed their families, not realizing that they&#8217;re disrupting the systems of their spouses, companions, children, and even pets.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">Sugar is what fuels our bodies; about this there is no argument.  Honey is processed by bees and has been processed by bees for approximately 100 million years, give or take a millennium.  Ancient people and animals have eaten honey as a natural source of sweet energy for thousands of years; even King David, when he was just a member of King Saul&#8217;s court, ate honey when his troops were forbidden to do so by Saul.  His behavior was much more cheerful after he ate the golden bee-processed food.  The ancient Indians (from India, not the First Nations of the Americas) derived raw, brown sugar from sugar cane.  Millions of years of updates and 2.0s and beta testing by the Creator of the universe and everything within it, and scientific evidence that bears this out, have concluded that sugar in natural forms, such as sugar cane, honey, and fruit, are healthful for the body provided they are not eaten in excess.  It is nearly impossible to eat natural sugar in excess because the body will not let you overdose on natural sugar; your body can only process so much before it says to the brain, stop, I&#8217;ve had enough for now.  Only when the body is malfunctioning will your body overdose on sugar.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">Yeah, I said it: overdose on sugar.  Sugar doesn&#8217;t have the allure of the illegal street pharmaceutical, but it messes up the body the same way <em>when the sweetener is unnatural</em>, such as the highly-processed, chemically-derived high-fructose corn syrup.  Feel free to go to the following URLs for more information on how HFCS disrupts everything about the human body:</span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/highfructose.html#facts" target="_blank">http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/highfructose.html#facts</a> <span style="color:#8f271e;">- a highly fertile source of links to many of the URLs mentioned here.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.westonaprice.org/motherlinda/cornsyrup.html">http://www.westonaprice.org/motherlinda/cornsyrup.html</a> <span style="color:#8f271e;">- tells you briefly how HFCS is made (small hint: it isn&#8217;t bees disco-dancing at an apiary [bee farm])</span></p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honey_bee">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honey_bee</a> <span style="color:#8f271e;">-  While not related to HFCS except as a sweetener, it nonetheless is a contrast, showing how a natural sweetener is produced.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://http://www.westonaprice.org/modernfood/highfructose.html">http://www.westonaprice.org/modernfood/highfructose.html</a><span style="color:#8f271e;"> &#8211; Shows proof that HFCS wreaks havoc on the body and tells how.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">Check the menstuff.org one first, as it has many links.</span> <span style="color:#8f271e;">Meanwhile, let&#8217;s leave Ms. Popsicle alone with her unaware companion.  Better yet, Ms. Popsicle should 86 the frozen &#8216;treat&#8217; and she and her companion can go to a farmers&#8217; market, natural foods store, or berry farm, buy a few quarts of fruit, and make their own frozen fruit bars.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#8f271e;">V.</span></p>
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		<title>A Loaf for the Vegans</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 22:30:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[PeaNot &#8220;Meat&#8221; Loaf Ingredients: 1/2 cup peanuts 2 TB olive oil One onion, diced One large garlic clove, minced One cup mushrooms, cleaned and chopped 2 cups cooked black beans 1 cup dry whole wheat bread crumbs 1/4 to 1/2 cup vegetable broth, as needed 1/2 cup cooked oatmeal 1/4 tsp. dried thyme 1/2 tsp. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=35&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#b79552;"><strong>PeaNot &#8220;Meat&#8221; Loaf</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;"><strong>Ingredients:</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;"> 1/2 cup peanuts<br />
2 TB olive oil<br />
One onion, diced<br />
One large garlic clove, minced<br />
One cup mushrooms, cleaned and chopped<br />
2 cups cooked black beans<br />
1 cup dry whole wheat bread crumbs<br />
1/4 to 1/2 cup vegetable broth, as needed<br />
1/2 cup cooked oatmeal<br />
1/4 tsp. dried thyme<br />
1/2 tsp. dried sage<br />
1 tsp. dried basil<br />
1/4 cup minced fresh parsley<br />
1/4 tsp. dried oregano<br />
1/4 tsp. dried rosemary<br />
2 TB ketchup<br />
Freshly ground black pepper, to taste<br />
1 tsp. salt<br />
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<p><span style="color:#b79552;"><strong>Directions:</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;"> Preheat the oven to 350º. Spray a loaf pan or 8&#215;8 square baking pan with nonstick spray and set aside (an 8&#215;8 pan makes a crisper loaf). </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;">Grind the peanuts into a coarse meal using a food processor or spice/coffee grinder. Place in a large mixing bowl and set aside. </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;">Sauté any vegetables you&#8217;ve chosen in the olive oil until soft. Add to the large mixing bowl along with all the remaining ingredients. Mix and mash together well, adding only as much liquid as needed to create a soft, moist loaf that holds together and is not runny (you may not need to add any liquid if the grains and protein are very moist). Add more binder/carbohydrate as needed if the loaf seems too wet. </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;"> Press mixture into the prepared pan and bake for 45 minutes to 1 hour, or until cooked through. </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;">Let the loaf cool in the pan for 10 to 15 minutes, then turn out onto a plate or platter and slice. Serve with potatoes, vegetables, and vegetarian gravy, if desired. </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;"> Cold leftover slices of PeaNot &#8220;Meat&#8221; Loaf make a great sandwich filling.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#b79552;">I generated this recipe courtesy of <a href="http://www.veganlunchbox.com/loaf_studio.html">http://www.veganlunchbox.com/loaf_studio.html</a>.  I apologize for neglecting the vegetarians and vegans out there in not having a dinner loaf recipe as a meatloaf alternative.  Feel free to use ingredients your family likes or can eat.<br />
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<p><span style="color:#b79552;">V.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 00:38:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now that the first half of summer is over and done with, I now get to enjoy the second half of summer. I am now out of a cast and into a soft brace, I went to my county fair (and enjoyed the best butter-bathed, fire-roasted corn and some red birch beer), I just turned [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=32&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#f0b37e;">Now that the first half of summer is over and done with, I now get to enjoy the second half of summer.  I am now out of a cast and into a soft brace, I went to my county fair (and enjoyed the best butter-bathed,  fire-roasted corn and some red birch beer), I just turned 37, and I&#8217;m enjoying a glass of beer to cool off in the summer&#8217;s heat.  My two peach trees have given up scores of peaches to be enjoyed fresh and in a peach cobbler (which my two living stepsons and their best friend devoured – what is it about young men&#8217;s appetites that compels them to eat massive amounts of food?  A young woman of similar age is encouraged to eat as daintily as possible; no such luck for the young man), I&#8217;ve picked a load of string beans, and the corn is just starting to become taller than me (I&#8217;m 5&#8217;7&#8243;, or 1.7 meters).</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#f0b37e;">No, I didn&#8217;t get to spend the summer riding my bike or roller skating or even working a summer job so i could at least try to go back to college for the fall, but at least if I can start a temp job soon I&#8217;ll most likely be able to go to school come spring semester.  I am happy, though, that my youngest stepson is going to college this fall as a criminal justice major.  Yes, I spent the first half of summer indoors, going out only for doctor&#8217;s appointments; now I get to see how my chickens have grown (two of the seven, unfortunately, have passed away) and I get to gather their eggs.  I also get to see how my garden has grown, both my external garden and the garden that is creative writing, as I also spent much of my indoor time writing a novel.  Bear in mind it&#8217;s nowhere near finished, but at least I&#8217;m learning much about novel writing that a class may or may not teach me.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#f0b37e;">Summer doesn&#8217;t have to be shot to pieces just because you didn&#8217;t get the summer you always wanted.  Not every summer is the one you want, but every summer is the one you need.  I needed to learn to depend on others, to see what people with obvious physical disabilities live with daily, and to laugh at myself, plus I managed to make over 400 additional friends on MySpace.  Now, go outside and play.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#f0b37e;">V.</span></p>
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		<title>Dependent Independence</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 17:47:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in June I was riding my bike when my bike decided it didn&#8217;t want me to ride it any more: while I was turning a corner, it threw me off, causing me to bounce on concrete (which humans were probably never meant to do) and into someone else&#8217;s yard. Two nice men took my [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=26&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#ff0000;">Back in June I was riding my bike when my bike decided it didn&#8217;t want me to ride it any more: while I was turning a corner, it threw me off, causing me to bounce on concrete (which humans were probably never meant to do) and into someone else&#8217;s yard.  Two nice men took my bike home and called 911; moments later, the ambulance came to take me to the hospital.  From then until recently, it has been a journey of forced dependence for me.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#3366ff;">From</span> <span style="color:#3366ff;">the time I went into triage until I left the hospital, the doctors and nurses were so kind and helpful to me.  When I found out I had indeed broken my leg, many questions went through my mind: how do I deal with a broken leg for the next six to eight weeks?  Will I be healed in time for me to go to the county fair (I so love to see the chickens and the cows at the fair)?  How much will I be able to do by myself?  Will I be able to eat my pseudohusband&#8217;s cooking?</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;">Two fiberglass casts and an air cast later, I fixed myself a bowl of ramen noodles, the first &#8216;cooking&#8217; I&#8217;ve done in nearly two months.  Oh, how good it tasted!  I shared some with my youngest stepson, who will be in college in the fall.  If you have never broken a bone in your life, consider yourself blessed.  If you have ever broken a bone in your life, consider yourself blessed, too; the blessings are different, but they still count.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#3366ff;">Being used to doing for myself, I figured that I would get a temporary job for the summer so that I, too, could go back to college for the fall; breaking my leg prevented that, since my leg obviously needed to heal.  I had to learn to trust my pseudohusband enough to let him wait on me hand and foot.  Such subservience, however, got annoying when he fixed my food portions for me without regard for my appetite or my desire to lose weight so I could be kinder to a knee I sprained a few years earlier, or when he fixed me a batch of brownies and substituted baking mix for flour and molasses for vanilla (the brownies were a mile high, </span><span style="color:#3366ff;">dreadful</span><span style="color:#3366ff;">, and </span><span style="color:#3366ff;">dry</span><span style="color:#3366ff;">; I like my brownies moist and a touch creamy)!  Occasionally, my stepson would help with the house chores or the cooking (such a sweet young man; I expect him to do what he can, unlike his mother, who expects him to do everything for her).  Still, they mean well; I just found relying on someone else difficult.<br />
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<p><span style="color:#ff0000;">As the weeks dragged on, I learned to ask for what I needed; I grew up in a home where I was not expected to ask for help and if I did ask for help I was chastised.  I learned that we all need someone to lean on, a lesson many modern women in general and black American women in particular either were never taught or forgot.  I also learned just how inconvenient society is for people with disabilities, even with the Americans With Disabilities Act of 1990 and the adjustments to buildings that have resulted from this act.  For example, I was at a chain department store shopping when the motorized scooter I was in conked out in the middle of the store; fortunately, a store employee pushed me and the scooter to the front to guest services.  This store only had three scooters available, and the other two were being used.  I had to use a manual wheelchair to get around the store, much less convenient since I had to carry a shopping basket in my lap and push the chair simultaneously, limiting what I could buy.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#3366ff;">Yes, any reasonable person knows that people with disabilities deserve equal access and convenience that able-bodied people enjoy; when faced with a temporarily disability, the tune is very different as you wind up singing the song of the woman in the scooter who can&#8217;t reach her favorite magazine because the top shelf is too high to reach at the bookstore or of the man who has to either ask someone to tend his garden or learn to live with weeds because he can&#8217;t tend his own garden.  There are many young men and women coming home from various military conflicts with both temporary and permanent disabilities; while you lobby your representative or senator for revisions to the Americans With Disabilities Act of 1990, making all buildings fully accessible and convenient for the disabled and improving customer service for the disabled, help your young soldier/sailor/airman(woman)/Marine who has come home in more than one piece by getting that copy of his/her favorite magazine, or fix a meatloaf dinner with garden fresh vegetables for your granddad or grandma who is not as speedy as he or she used to be.  Best of all, let your disabled loved one do at least something for himself or herself, to the best of that person&#8217;s ability.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;">I still have a few weeks left to heal my leg, but I am now allowed to bear half my weight on my air-casted leg.  I still have a long road ahead, but I took that detour and it has made all the difference.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#3366ff;">V.</span></p>
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		<title>Rebirth</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 17:56:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy spring, all. Last week was Earth Week. Okay, technically April 22 was the official Earth Day, but in my city the celebration started that Sunday at my local zoo and continued throughout the week. My local PBS station aired a documentary on the rebirth of the Cuyahoga River. Yes, I live in Cleveland, where [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=25&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">Happy spring, all.  Last week was Earth Week.  Okay, technically April 22 was the official Earth Day, but in my city the celebration started that Sunday at my local zoo and continued throughout the week.  My local PBS station aired a documentary on the rebirth of the Cuyahoga River.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">Yes, I live in Cleveland, where apparently back in the &#8217;60s the Cuyahoga River was so polluted that it actually caught fire.  Seems to go against the laws of both physics and God for water to catch fire, but back then I guess people assumed that anything dumped in Nature would go away.  The problem with such thought, however, is that &#8216;away&#8217; eventually becomes &#8216;here&#8217;: did they seriously assume that &#8216;away&#8217; was a magical place where garbage and pollutants disappear?</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">I was born in 1971, so messages about ecology and the environmental movement are pretty much second nature to me.  Woodsy the Owl, Smokey the Bear, and the crying First Nations man were all reminders that we mustn&#8217;t pollute.  I learned about</span><span style="color:#ff99cc;"> nuclear power plants in the &#8217;70s, recycling and recycled products </span><span style="color:#ff99cc;"> </span><span style="color:#ff99cc;">in the </span><span style="color:#ff99cc;">&#8217;80s and organic gardening and </span><span style="color:#ff99cc;">animal welfare in the &#8217;90s along with the rest of my generation; still, I am saddened by people, particularly young people, who blindly believe that they can trash the Earth and whatever is in it without consequence.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">Consider the increases in cancers and developmental disorders in children &#8212; I never heard of autism until a teacher discussed it briefly in junior high; now 1 out of every 150 children is diagnosed with disorders within the autism spectrum.  Whether it&#8217;s because these disorders are more readily being tested for now or whether a child&#8217;s diet and environment is a contributing factor in the increase in diagnoses of childhood diseases as well as formerly adult diseases manifesting themselves in children is currently unclear.  Still, it&#8217;s always a good idea to make sure that your child&#8217;s or grandchild&#8217;s personal environment is as toxin-free as possible.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">I may not be able to put solar panels on my roof or install a greywater irrigation unit under my bathtub or kitchen sink, but I can grow my own vegetables using organic soil amendments (such as what my ducks and chickens leave behind after they eat, if you catch my drift) so my late stepson&#8217;s daughters can have healthy food to eat to augment the diet their mother feeds them.  I may not be able to run all my errands by bicycle, but my pseudohusband has a fuel-efficient vehicle and we tend to combine errands so &#8216;Mr. Car&#8217; won&#8217;t be overused for city traffic.  I may not be able to buy a completely organic free-range diet, but with my vegetable garden, my chickens for eggs (and possibly meat, if push came to shove), and fruit trees and berry bushes, I can eat pretty nicely (if only for a few months in any given year).  It&#8217;s almost never the big things that you try and maybe don&#8217;t complete that affect your eco-footprint on this planet, but all the seemingly little things you complete daily that impact the Earth and all within it.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">If all you do is call your senators or congresspeople to urge them to pass bills that help the Earth or veto bills that harm the Earth, it is still more than what you would have done if you had done nothing.  If all you can do is plant a window box full of lettuce seeds and a hanging basket with strawberry plants, you at least will have Strawberry-Lettuce salad and you know what went in it because you grew it yourself.  If all you do is teach a child that throwing trash in lakes and rivers will harm the water or even kill animals that live there, you have at least planted a seed for the future.   Do something to make the Earth a better place to live and you make your life here better.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">Be reborn this spring; lobby for Earth Month.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff99cc;">V.</span></p>
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		<title>He Now Has His Wings</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 02:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just came back from my oldest stepson&#8217;s funeral: he passed away nearly three weeks ago at age 26.  One of the things that fascinated him was space (yes, the final frontier); another thing that he had hoped to do was to travel around the world.  He now has his wings and can now realize [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=24&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font color="#008000">I just came back from my oldest stepson&#8217;s funeral: he passed away nearly three weeks ago at age 26.  One of the things that fascinated him was space (yes, the final frontier); another thing that he had hoped to do was to travel around the world.  He now has his wings and can now realize both passions.</font></p>
<p><font color="#008000">I knew him as a quiet young man who only let people in when he felt he could trust them.  I also knew him as a man who was a bit of a practical joker and as a man would move Heaven and Earth to take care of his two young daughters.  I learned at the funeral service that he did volunteer work in Mexico, building homes for people who needed them.  I also learned that he was a role model for young people who used to do drugs in that he inspired them to get off drugs.  He was well-loved by his three brothers, his mother, his stepfather, his father, and me.</font></p>
<p><font color="#008000">I sometimes wonder, If I had fixed one more meatloaf dinner or done his laundry one more time or let him know that his daughters occasionally were ill-behaved or urged him to go to rehab, would he still be here today?  I now know that he was a young man in chronic pain who used painkillers just to function daily.  One night he took too much, fell asleep, and never woke up; his younger brother and his children&#8217;s mother found him the next day.</font></p>
<p><font color="#008000">I now grieve, not for the quiet young man in pain I knew, but for the vibrant young man I wish I knew.  More than that, I grieve because I wish I could have told him that he was a good young man and that though he and his father sometimes didn&#8217;t see eye-to-eye his father undeniably loved him.  Now I have to tell my two remaining stepsons that they are just as much a blessing to me as they are to their mother &#8212; I missed that chance with their big brother.  Don&#8217;t pass up opportunities to tell your loved ones how you really feel about them.  Tell them now before they get their wings.</font></p>
<p><font color="#008000">V.</font></p>
<p align="center"><font color="#008000">dedicated to</font></p>
<p align="center"><font color="#008000">June 4, 1981   Jeremy Edward Bourke   February 12, 2008</font></p>
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		<title>I, Too, Have a Dream</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 16:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Society as a whole and black Americans in particular seem to have lost their sense of purpose, their moral compass, their &#8216;home training&#8217;, as it were.  People love to play the blame game, especially when it comes to blaming their failure on factors that have little to nothing to do with their failure.  I&#8217;m sure my [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=23&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font color="#2d5e6b">Society as a whole and black Americans in particular seem to have lost their sense of purpose, their moral compass, their &#8216;home training&#8217;, as it were.  People love to play the blame game, especially when it comes to blaming their failure on factors that have little to nothing to do with their failure.  I&#8217;m sure my evil twin is all fired up about this, but she&#8217;s sleeping in today, so I&#8217;m kinda writing &#8216;her&#8217; blog today.  On this day that we honor the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., I, too, have a dream.  Although not as grand or as Earth-shaking as his dream, it can still make a difference.</font></p>
<p><font color="#2d5e6b">I have a dream that the people in America will heal themselves from within and put the blame game to rest.  To the white man in Mississippi who claims he lost his place in the college of his choice to a less-qualified black man, I say to you: what makes the Brother less qualified than you to go to school, especially when he probably went to a high school with a high dropout rate and struggled to get straight A&#8217;s while working after school to help support his widowed father while you may have enjoyed a more pleasant adolescence?  Walk in his shoes, my European brother, before you judge.  To the Brother who uses the race card as an excuse for being angry and selling urban pharmaceuticals, I say to you: who taught you that selling drugs was the only option for the black man to get out of poverty?  Barack Obama, the late Thurgood Marshall, Clarence Thomas, Colin Powell, and every black mayor, governor, senator, congressman, lawyer, doctor, soldier, sailor, airman, Marine, astronaut, scientist, preacher, teacher, policeman, fireman, and judge is living proof that the dope man is not your role model.</font></p>
<p><font color="#2d5e6b">To those who treat our Asian brothers and sisters with scorn and contempt for opening businesses in poor commuities, two points need to be made.  First, these Asians and their parents and grandparents came to America to escape death from their own governments for various reasons so they could breathe easier and breathe the free air we, as home-grown Americans, take for granted.  Second, what are we, as home-grown Americans, willing to do to build and own businesses in poor communities, to clean up those communities, and to lift people in these neighborhoods out of poverty and into the promised land?</font></p>
<p><font color="#2d5e6b">As a matter of fact, what does the promised land look like to you?  If it looks like a spoiled wealthy person&#8217;s conspicuously consumptive playground, give it up: very few people live like that, and those that do rarely learn lessons of cooperation, moderation, temperance, or responsibilty.  If, however, it looks like a place with clean air, water, and food; where a child of any color can look up to both the beauty salon owner and the model as role models, where Grandma and Granddad can live peaceably and teach young people valuable lessons in life, where the doctor and the mail carrier replace the crack man and the lady of ill repute as role models, and where children can learn about the shared and individual history of the people of this land in a sane, objective, calm manner, then you&#8217;re on the right track.  That&#8217;s just my dream.</font></p>
<p><font color="#2d5e6b">Let&#8217;s face it: if we were all skinless and hairless, how would we be able to treat each other with scorn, contempt, and hatred?  Wake up, children of Light, and live like you and others were skinless and hairless.</font></p>
<p><font color="#2d5e6b">V.</font></p>
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		<title>Thank You, Dr. King</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:33:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ This speech was given by the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on August 28, 1963 at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C.: &#8220;I HAVE A DREAM&#8221; (1963) I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=22&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <font color="#8e8eff">This speech was given by the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on August 28, 1963 at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C.:</font></p>
<h3>&#8220;I HAVE A DREAM&#8221; (1963)</h3>
<p>I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.</p>
<p>Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.</p>
<p>But 100 years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we&#8217;ve come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.</p>
<p>In a sense we&#8217;ve come to our nation&#8217;s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men &#8211; yes, black men as well as white men &#8211; would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.</p>
<p>It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check that has come back marked &#8220;insufficient funds.&#8221;</p>
<p>But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so we&#8217;ve come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and security of justice. We have also come to his hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God&#8217;s children.</p>
<p>It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro&#8217;s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end but a beginning. Those who hoped that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.</p>
<p>But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone.</p>
<p>And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, &#8220;When will you be satisfied?&#8221; We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro&#8217;s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their selfhood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating &#8220;for whites only.&#8221; We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no we are not satisfied and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.</p>
<p>I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.</p>
<p>Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.</p>
<p>Let us not wallow in the valley of despair. I say to you today my friends &#8211; so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.</p>
<p>I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: &#8220;We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.&#8221;</p>
<p>I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.</p>
<p>I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.</p>
<p>I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.</p>
<p>I have a dream today.</p>
<p>I have a dream that one day down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification &#8211; one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.</p>
<p>I have a dream today.</p>
<p>I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.</p>
<p>This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.</p>
<p>This will be the day, this will be the day when all of God&#8217;s children will be able to sing with new meaning &#8220;My country &#8217;tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my father&#8217;s died, land of the Pilgrim&#8217;s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring!&#8221;</p>
<p>And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true. And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania.</p>
<p>Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado. Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.</p>
<p>But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.</p>
<p>Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.</p>
<p>Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi &#8211; from every mountainside.</p>
<p>Let freedom ring. And when this happens, and when we allow freedom ring &#8211; when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God&#8217;s children &#8211; black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics &#8211; will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual: &#8220;Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!&#8221;</p>
<hr noShade="true" />Distribution statement: Accepted as part of the Douglass Archives of American Public Address (<a href="http://douglass.speech.nwu.edu">http://douglass.speech.nwu.edu</a>) on May 26, 1999. Prepared by D. Oetting (<a href="http://nonce.com/oetting">http://nonce.com/oetting</a>).</p>
<p><font color="#8e8eff">Thank you, Dr. King and countless others of all races, for making life sweeter for people who didn&#8217;t exist in your time, myself included.  Because of you I can ride anywhere on the bus I want (so long as I can find a seat <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  ), date whomever is pleasant regardless of race,  drink at whatever water fountain I want to, eat where I want to at a restaurant, and live where I choose.  Because of you and the soldiers of peace I can do things I wouldn&#8217;t have been able to do 100 years ago because of both my race and my gender and 50 years ago because of my race.  I can&#8217;t repay the debt my generation and I owe you; all I can do is spread the seeds of love and recruit soldiers of peace.</font></p>
<p><font color="#8e8eff">Happy birthday, Dr. King.</font></p>
<p><font color="#8e8eff">V.</font></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where I live it snows in winter, and today is no exception.  Days like today require a hot bowl of oatmeal, a nice hand-knit sweater, and a blanket.  A fire in the fireplace would be a huge bonus, but since not everyone has a fireplace I&#8217;ll understand if you curl up around your stove or [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=copperdots.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1646858&amp;post=20&amp;subd=copperdots&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font color="#1dc6e2">Where I live it snows in winter, and today is no exception.  Days like today require a hot bowl of oatmeal, a nice hand-knit sweater, and a blanket.  A fire in the fireplace would be a huge bonus, but since not everyone has a fireplace I&#8217;ll understand if you curl up around your stove or a heating register.</font></p>
<p><font color="#1dc6e2">I intended on speaking about high fructose corn syrup today; that blog will have to be delayed for another time as I savor a big bowl of oatmeal with<a href="http://copperdots.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/freewant%20%203643.jpg" title="freewant%20%203643.jpg"></a> chopped apples, cinnamon, nutmeg, ginger, and a touch of brown sugar mixed in for flavor.  You may have whatever breakfast makes you feel good on a cold winter&#8217;s day (if you are one of those lucky souls who lives in the Southern Hemisphere, you are experiencing summer right now and may or may not be reading this right now.  If you are one of those souls who lives at or near the equator you have no clearly discernable seasonal change, but rather subtle temperature and climate fluctuations).</font></p>
<p><font color="#1dc6e2">The sweater and the blanket warm us on the outside, while the hot breakfast warms us on the inside, and I&#8217;m not talking just about the food temperature.  Hot breakfasts remind us of home and family; consider all the restaurants and diners with &#8220;Mom&#8217;s&#8221; in the name, not to mention other familiar foodstuffs with family members&#8217; titles in the product&#8217;s name: In the United States we have Aunt Jemima pancake mix, Uncle Ben&#8217;s converted rice, Grandma&#8217;s molasses, Dad&#8217;s root beer, and a whole host of other products that have nearly every member of the family mentioned.  In other countries this may be the same way; I only mentioned a few U.S. products because, well, I&#8217;m American and am more familiar with American products.</font></p>
<p><font color="#1dc6e2">Consider the painting by American artist Norman Rockwell, &#8220;Freedom from Want&#8221;. <a href="http://copperdots.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/freewant%20%203643.jpg" title="freewant%20%203643.jpg"></a> In it, the grandmother is serving a Thanksgiving turkey.  Hot food, warm blankets, and toasty sweaters remind us of that soft place we all need to fall on: loved ones.  Even if you are currently flying solo, you always have at least one person who, if it were your choice, would be wrapped up in a blanket and splitting that bowl of oatmeal with you.  Whether that person is half a world away or right in the next room, grab a handknit sweater and snuggle up with your favorite person, even if only in memory; in our memories, our loved ones are always right where we need them.</font></p>
<p><font color="#1dc6e2">Now if you&#8217;ll excuse me, I just have to scoop up this last bit of oatmeal.</font></p>
<p><font color="#1dc6e2">V.</font></p>
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